My 'Little' Bro

I leave for 2 weeks and come home to an engaged little brother! How did that happen? Wasn't it just yesterday we were running around barefoot, making forts, demanding other kids on the hill get off our property, arguing and fighting constantly?! His existence up until how has been trauma-filled, or hospital-filled. Are those days over? Has he officially covered that bridge into manhood?

Awhile back, I warned him that he was not allowed to marry before me. Like a typical little brother, he didn't listen. I thought I wouldn't be able to handle that kind of pressure or 'backwards' order of things. But after seeing him, them, I realized I couldn't demand that from him. He hasn't crashed his truck in like 10 months. He hasn't been to the hospital in about that long and there have been no major accidents/incidents to report. With that kind of a track record in recent months, something must be right. They say that a man needs a woman to settle him down, force him to mature and take responsibility. I believe it and see it in him. He has a sparkle about him that I have never seen before. His happiness level is at an all-time high. And I'm pretty sure he has money in his bank account! He is ready for this new step and I know I have trained him to be able to handle anything that a female throws his way!

Now, if I hear one more person say anything along the lines of: 'Well, your younger brother is getting married before you, when is it going to be your turn??' or 'How do you feel about being a single big sister?' or 'Don't worry, your time will come soon!' I think I may just punch them in the throat. Censor your thoughts people. You're not gonna win any awards for being Captain Obvious. And I certainly don't want any charity, sympathy or encouragement. Clearly I am in no rush to make a wrong decision. This big sister has the gumption to handle the situation and can't wait for what the future brings!